A priest once went to a party that many couples attended. when it was time to dance all the couples were dancing with thier partners, but the priest was dancing alone. so one of the women dancing with her husband said, 'father you don't know what you are missing.' Two days later the same woman ran into the priests office crying after she was seriously beating by are husband. The priest looked at her, laughed and said to her you can see that  you dont know what you are missing.