Search Site: OnlineNigeria

Close



DADDY, I AM YOUR DAUGHTER.

Posted by USA on 7/13/2008 12:03:09 PM | Views: 312 |

Popular Menu

Failed projection in travel Ugly Tales Of Abuja Ghettos HOME OF RICHES AND POWES A final word to the cabal in Kaduna How Seme Customs enforced vehicle importation ban Football Prediction in Nigeria and Betting As a Source of Employment Returnee Graduates Disturb As Employers Reject Foreign Degrees The World Through The Lens Of Alternative History The Case Of The Three Abba Kyari Donald Trump's Toxic Masculinity How Donald Trump turned Ted Cruz into a laughingstock Joey's Monday Musings: Is Fela Kuti still relevant in this digital age of Nigerian music? Cancellation Of Post Utme, A Blessing To Our Educational System Moms and dads! Porn shall not be our norm Are most Nigerian artists original? BROKEN RIB (AGAINST DIVORCE) How can Nigeria deal with its recession? The Man Who Named His Dog Buhari Nigeria is Ranked No. 1 In Scrabble Understanding Your Shipping Cost SHOPTOMYDOOR INTENDS TO TACKLE DELIVERY CHALLENGES IN AFRICA CORRUPT EFCC BOSS WHO ARRESTED BLOGGER ABUSIDIQU DEMANDS FOR TWO DIRECTORS AS SURETIES TO SET HIM FREE Being Christian shouldn?t make you a bad dresser Gov. Amaechi Tackles Youths Unemployment Should Sports Not Be A Part Of Okonjo Iweala (Entertainment Industry) Economy Diversification Drive Should Sports Not Be A Part Of Okonjo Iweala (Entertainment Industry) Economy Diversification Drive HP Mobile Authentication Helps Protect Customers Against Counterfeits NIGERIA TODAY Ibis Hotel to Extend Equity in Nigeria, Offer Promo to Customers Looting of treasury at the top SUBSIDIES ON PETROL Youthful magnate extends Midas touch to lifestyle mag . OK! Magazine in association with MTN to launch in Nigeria Hon Emeka Ihedioha: Constituency fund Initiated Project and Matters Arising Lamit Cup - Clay Shooting Competition by Lamit Sports File Restore Tool – Capable to Recover Lost Data Nigeria @ 51 VENIVIICI.COM, ONLINE RETAIL STORE TO LAUNCH OCTOBER 1, 2011 CORRUPTION; THE GREATEST CHALLENGE! THE NIGERIA OF MY DREAMS (PART 2). THE NIGERIA OF MY DREAMS (PART 1). THE PRESIDENCY MUST HEAR THIS. The Dying Education And The Unborn Redeemers. PRINCEWILL AND HIS LOVE FOR THE LESS PRIVILEGED IN NIGERIA Ngor/Okpala: A Council Area in Need of Development OK! NIGERIA ANNOUNCES EDITOR-IN-CHIEF THE INFLUENCE OF TELEVISION ON FAMILY INSTITUTION IN NIGERIA For they know not! Solving our poverty and unemployment crises…a Malay-Israeli approach socio economic transformation of nigeria Original Quotes Exposing the menace of counterfeiting Pan African Airlines (Nigeria) Ltd. Signs Agreement to Provide First Class Services Nigerian Authorities Execute Seizure of Fake Printing Supplies for HP Printers celestial church- thy joy of thy lord unto we all How to monitor entire keystrokes using key logger software Governor Rochas: Declare State Of Emergency in State Public Schools Imo State: Dissolution of LGA council and matters arising Imo State: Owelle Rochas Not A Miracle Worker Imo State Government: Save Amala/Ntu Secondary School from Total Rot We welcome you, Nigeria! THE DIVINE MERCY (FREE AUDIO PRAYER) The road to stardom..................No room for mistakes. THE NIGERIA OF MY DREAMS (PART 1) Access important data from formatted hard drive data THE RESILIENCE THAT PAID OFF! Ohakim’s Empowerment Application Form (Per Ward): A Real or False Bait? What will happen to the killers,the muslims in the north? 2011 Imo Gubernatorial Polls: Governor Ohakim Beyond Electorates Redemption Profile of Warisenibo (Hon.) Dakuku Adolphus Peterside April 2011 Polls: Princewill Commends Rivers’s People and Prof. Jega RIVERS GUBER 2011: AMAECHI, SEKIBO OR OMEHIA: WHO IS EASY CHOICE FOR THE RIVERS STATE PEOPLE? Nigeria: Is there any hope for the poorest of the poor? PPA Winds up Door to Door Electoral Campaign Exercise; as Princewill Urges Voters to Convert Overwhelming Support to Physical Votes on Election Dates Hon. Chief Peterside Dakuku and His Triumphant Entry into Andoni Kingdom Hon. Chief Peterside Dakuku and His Triumphant Entry into Andoni Kingdom 2011: THE NATIONAL ASSEMBLY TO BE REINVIGORATED AS GOV AMAECHI UNLEASHES HIS FIRST ELEVEN ON THE HAPLESS OPPOSITION IN RIVERS STATE 2011: THE PRINCIPLE OF “ANYA-NELI”, CHIEF BARR. EZEBUNWO NYESOM WIKE AND THE POLITICAL FUTURE OF RIVERS STATE – AN OVERVIEW OF AN INSIDER Have you lost your important files and folders? $5,000,000. interswitch ATM Card ARE AFRICANS RELIGIOUS PEOPLE OR FETISH INHABITANTS? DO THEY HAVE A UNIFYING RELIGION AND CULTURE? TOWARDS A PEDAGOGICAL RESPONSE! part 4 Opobians in Diaspora Drum Support for Hon. Dakuku Peterside ARE AFRICANS RELIGIOUS PEOPLE OR FETISH INHABITANTS? DO THEY HAVE A UNIFYING RELIGION AND CULTURE? TOWARDS A PEDAGOGICAL RESPONSE! Part 3 Port Harcourt rally stampede is heartbreaking - Princewill ARE AFRICANS RELIGIOUS PEOPLE OR FETISH INHABITANTS? DO THEY HAVE A UNIFYING RELIGION AND CULTURE? TOWARDS A PEDAGOGICAL RESPONSE! part 2 ARE AFRICANS RELIGIOUS PEOPLE OR FETISH INHABITANTS? DO THEY HAVE A UNIFYING RELIGION AND CULTURE? TOWARDS A PEDAGOGICAL RESPONSE! part 1 Hon. Dakuku Peterside: The House of Representative Candidate and His Political Movement Nigeria: The Ban on Commercial Motorcyclists Princewill Pays Homage to his Father, Urges Kalabari Natives to Vote for Amaechi Dr. Dawari George: Truth about the House of Representatives candidate It's in you; oh Citizen. Niger/Delta: Militancy or Criminality a Genuine Cause for Agitation? Niger/Delta: Militancy or Criminality a Genuine Cause for Agitation? Inec Urged To Extend Registration Days 2011 Election: The Odd Favors Goodluck Jonathan Over Nuhu Ribadu Praise For Dr Dalhatu Tafida From A Global Group Goodluck Jonathan Triumphs In Pdp Party Primary Online Marketing APGA, WHICH WAY? Atiku Abubakar’s Desperation and His Politics of Entitlement Igbos and the 2011 Elections Goodluck Jonathan Global Campaign Team disappointed over Choice of Atiku as Consensus Candidate Internet usage by country: Nigeria has more per capita internet users than India And They Lived Happily Everafter.... Poll: Jonathan Could Beat Atiku in 2011 PDP Presidential Primaries Goodluck Jonathan Campaign Team Concentrate on Jonathan's Voter Registration Drive U.S. Interests in Nigeria’s Financial Reform Success Global Diaspora CampaignTeam Lauds Dr Dalhatu Tafida contributions towards Dr Goodluck Jonathan 2011 Dr Goodluck Jonathan’s Use of Social Media Campaign WHAT SHOULD CHRISTIAN DO ABOUT THE PLIGHT OF THE POOL IN OUR SOCIETY AND IN OTHER PART OF THE WORLD ARE HOMOSEXUAL CHRISTIANITY GENUINE: SHOULD WE ACCEPT THEM TO CHURCH? WHAT IS CHRISTIAN VIEW ABOUT ABORTION IS THERE ANY HARM IN SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE? IS IT A DIRECTIVE FROM GOD THAT THE CHURCH SHOULD BE SILENT ON POLITICAL AFFIARS? WHAT IS CHRISTIANITY STAND ON RACIAL PREJUDICEAND SECURITY REVENGE? THINKING THROUGH THE REALITY OF MORAL ISSUES IN OUR GENERATION Pornography Use in a Marriage The Question of Love, Sex in Marriage COMPOSITION OF ADULTERY THE MENACE OF SECRET SOCIETIES IN NIGERIA Nigeria @ 50: What happened to the ‘Giant of Africa’? Happy Birthday Nigeria….. CELESTIAL CHURCH OF CHRIST-IMOLE KRISTI DE LATI BA WA GBE NINU IJO MIMO 2011: WHITHER YOUTH CANDIDATES A well fed slave and a hungry free man: who is better the field were glory does not stay (Poem) Beauty and Persnality What I wish I had known before coming to the USA. Hannibal was black In support of Zoning system of government A MESSAGE OF HOPE A MWA SHOULD WE BELIEVE IN GOD ? Undelete data from faulty data storage media LIFE AFTER DIVORCE Kpako Husband CONFIRMED!!! HOW I MADE $250 IN 24HOURS WITH MY LIBERTY RESERVE ACCOUNT IN DEFENCE OKADA MEN PROSTITUTION A SOCIAL MENACE ONE MILLION YOUTH MARCH AT KEBBI FOR WHAT? Why Nigeria Crashed Out of The World Cup failed marriages Open letter to Alhaji Sani Yerima Nurturing Effective and Elective Democracy in Nigeria Death of the zoning system: A muted grief The Niger Delta Question IBB AT YOUR SERVICE EDMARK INTERNATIONAL HAS CHANGED NIGERIANS FINANCIALLY AN ATRIBUTE TO OUR DEAR PERSIDENT tribute to our dear president How ThisDay Newspapers 'Scandalized' President Obama's Nigerian Nominee 2011: What if it is Babangida again? THY GOOD SHERPERD- OLUSHOAGUTAN RERE where to keep your problem This Graveyard called Nigeria The Paedophiles in our midst State of the Nation and a Credible 2011 Elections: Matters Arising Yar’Adua-Jonathan Political Muddle: What Lies Ahead? Dear Bishop Oyedepo Gospel of Wickedness – The Hypocrisy and Falsehood of Helen Ukpabio – Part 2. Gospel of Wickedness – The Hypocrisy and Falsehood of Helen Ukpabio – Part 1. Nigeria Mass Media - The Fourth Estate of Graft LIFE AND TESTIMONY Emenogu, world number four, eyes WBC crown A SEALED PRAYER Life after death Responding to Mr Dodo's letter The Stampede for N4million naira on namywedding,com Illogicality and Absurdities: Open letter to Turai Yar’adua EARTHQUAKE REVIEF MISSION Emmanuel TV Haiti Earthquake Relief Team RELAX… AND ENJOY YOUR WINE. A VITAL TOOLS TO THE WORLD BEHOLD! TB JOSHUA’S NEW MYSTERY LADY The dangers of heterodoxy – Open letter to Evangelist Helen Ukpabio T.B JOSHUA IS NOT BUILDING IN GHANA NIGERIA LEADERSHIP CRISES: THE PAUL DIKE OPTION TB JOSHUA IS GREECE'S BIGGEST THREAT IN SA WORLD CUP – GREEK NATIONAL NEWSPAPER A later to my brothers and sisters! HAITI and NIGERIA: Case studies in failure of Human Management of natural resources. The End of Plenty: Nigeria’s “Malthusian Curse” A Letter to the America President from a Nigerian Why I Will Not Support Prof. Chukwuma Soludo Barack Obama: Man of the Year 2009 Labyrinth of Leadership: Nigeria’s Peculiar Mess (penkelemesi) studying abroad is not a child`s play Nigeria, Niger Delta Violence and the Biafra Connection: A Political Discourse By Chris Onyema The Parody of Nigerian Education and the Alternative Search for Foreign Certificate: Whither the Hope of a Better Future? (Part I) GREAT MEN AND HISTOTRY 2011: Ibrahim Shekarau as President What we must tell the President Nigeria: when is the relieve coming? (2) THE AFRICA CHALLENGE...A Message to the President addressed to the Nigerian Youths at the UNITED NATIONS on Aug 7th 2009 Arabic Inscription or Hausa Verbiage: Between Manipulative Interpretations and Subjective Impulse The Many Faces of Helen Ukpabio Nigeria: When is the relieve coming? The Intrigues of Naming: A Dissectional Response to the ‘Boko Haram’ Butchery The Intrigues of Naming: A Dissectional Response to the ‘Boko Haram’ Butchery Curtailing the excesses of Evangelist Helen Ukpabio Fraud Alert! INTERSWITCH SCAM EMAILS ON THE LOOSE, BEWARE! Who Is TB Joshua's Mentor? THE TRIBAL EMANCIPATION OF NDI IGBO FROM NORTHERN DOMINATION; part 3 Tony Patrick a.k.a. TP-Rhymes Selfless Service Niger Delta Crisis: Nigeria Loses N6, 264 Trillion! MOTHER'S DAY: THE MYTH BEHIND THIS DAY! Withdrawal of Andy Uba's Supreme Court Case Anambra State Political Issues: This Is My Stand (Part II) KA SISE LATI LE RE IJOBA ORUN --- OMO IJO MIMO---CELESTIAL CHURCH OF CHRIST Anambra State Political Issues: This Is My Stand Dividends Of Unemployment Mental Colonialism RE: REBRANDING NIGERIA IMAGE PROJECT; WE ALL MUST SUPPORT AND CONTRIBUTE TOWARDS A TRIBAL EMANCIPATION OF NDI IGBO FROM NORTHERN DOMINATION-Part 2 Anambra State and The One-Term Governor Syndrome (Part II) i miss her sorry baby Make Quick Money with less Stress VISION 2020 AND NIGERIA'S ECONOMY, THE WAY FORWARD Satellite Internet Access Lamit Company launches a new network solution for improving the internet connection A-Z of Cyber Fraudsters & Preventive Tips We dont have ambbasador in China but a foolish goat GOODNESS IN MAN. WORDS WRITTEN IN BLOOD THE LOVE BETWEEN OBJ AND ATIKU Some Articles deserve not to be published. Obama: The President With Many Firsts Our Ambassador in china is very stupid What can be done about being Nigerian? TOWARDS A TRIBAL ENMACIPATION OF NDI IGBO FROM NORTHERN DOMINATION- Part 1 Burden Of Proof In Election Petitions We Know The Way Their Racism, Our Tribalism LEGITIMATE AND ILLEGITIMATE WORRY YOU ARE TIMELESS TO ME. Why I Want McCain To Win How Race Colors American Presidential Election Nigeria, afer the Beijing games. Do we ever have a Government? Help Nigerians in China out b4 too late. BIG TROUBLE FOR NIGERIANSIN CHINA Nigeria@48 Wake-up Nigeria 1ST NIGERIAN GERMAN SECURITY CONFERENCE 2008 ABUJA BETWEEN PHYSICIANS AND THEIR FATALLY WOUNDED PATIENTS THE SOCIAL AND PHILOSOPHICAL FUNCTION OF LANGUAGE FOREIGN NATIONALS USING NIGERIAN PASSPORTS MODERN MAN AND SCIENTIFIC SOPHISTICATION IN THE THIRD MILLENNIUM "ONWA ASATO' OR "ILO MUO" FESTIVAL IN NRI MARITAL TRAGEDIES AMONG NIGERIANS IN DIASPORA (PART I) war aganist women HOW OBAMA CAN WIN IN NOVEMBER TAX EVASSION IN LAGOS? FATHERHOOD AND FAMILY FROM A GERMAN PERSPECTIVE MEMO TO NIGERIAN WOMEN/WIVES RE: ABORTION IS A SACRIFICE TO THE DEVIL. ELECTION RIGGING BY ANOTHER NAME MY CELESTINE UKWU'S 'IJE ENU' MEMORIES WHY I SERVED AND WHY I LEFT THE NIGERIAN ARMY THE NATURE AND FORMS OF FREE MASONRY: ITS HISTORICAL ORIGIN, FRATERNITY AND THRUST FATHERHOOD AND FAMILY FROM A LATINO PERSPECTIVE THE WORLD IN PRESENT EZINNE CELEBRATION: A CHALLENGE TO THE DIGNITY OF AFRICAN MOTHERHOOD AND FAMILY LIVING WITH TEENS & YOUTHS ITS TIME TO BE REAL AND RELEVANT TOJU ISE RE,OMO IJO MIMO MUCH ADO ABOUT EXECUTIVE IMMUNITY RE: MBADINUJU'S TRAVAILS How Eke, Oye, Afor and Nkwo Market Days Were Introduced In Igboland. DADDY, I AM YOUR DAUGHTER. Prepare for Success It is an insult to call Obama black Why is it that African leaders are seduced by the sacrosanct monster? FATHERHOOD AND FAMILY FROM AN ASIAN PERSPECTIVE Western Architecture versus Tropical Architecture: Why you shouldn't import your house plan from Europe/America FATHERHOOD FROM AFRICAN PERSPECTIVE MBADINUJU'S TRAVAILS SUDANESE PLANE CRASH: A CHALLENGE TO AFRICAN AVIATION INDUSTRIES Intrigues: The Nigeria Supreme Court and the Rotimi Amaechi's Judgment IGU ARO NDI IGBO Invitation to attend Harris Phillips' highly subsidized seminars for June and July 2008 ATTEND FREE SEMINARS TILL THE END OF JUNE!!! Anambra State: On the Road to Greatness ANAMBRA STATE: ON THE ROAD TO GREATNESS ABSENT FATHERS: Its Impact on the Family PHCN IS KILLING PEOPLE IN BOLORUNPELU TOWN IKOTUN LAGOS NIGERIA Letter to my friend oversea Major Bid To Internationalize Nigerian Contemporary Poetry. YES, NIGERIAN WRITINGS TODAY ARE RUDDERLESS Professor Tony Afejuku of the Department of English, University of Benin, a poet, critic and an activist, once said in an interview with a Nigerian newspaper (Vanguard), that Nigerian writings today are rudderless. NIGERIAN PRESIDENT'S CHIEF PUBLICIST DEVISES CREDIBILITY RUBBISHING SCHEME FATHERHOOD: HISTORICAL, SOCIOLOGICAL AND ANTHROPOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVE The Obasanjo Years of Locust (1999 To 2007) is our Collective Guilt UPSURGE ON ONLINE PUBLISHING IN NIGERIA PROFILE AND POETRY OF COMRADE CHIDI ANTHONY OPARA Niger Delta Conference!!!! Celestial Church Of Christ Celestial Church Of Christ Celestial Church Of Christ human right New Energizer on the Block NOT TOO YOUNG Andy Uba's Anambra State Governorship Delusions (Part II) Obama's Historic Speech: A Critical Analysis Andy Uba's Anambra State Governorship Delusions Why We Serve In the United States Military Undeserved end of late Julius Usigbe Substance Abuse Among Single Mothers (2) Fatherhood and family IS THERE A GLOBAL MARKET FOR USED GOODS FROM THE UNITED STATES? Towrds saving lives and safer roads Towaards Whither went the Super Eagles? Substance Abuse among Single Moms:Toward a psychological and Emotional Approach Ladies Shoes, Ladies Boots, Cheap Shoes Online THE GROWING INFLUENCE AND ACTIVITIES I came, I saw, and I conquered SHARIA AS AN OPTION IN KANO Nation EVERYDAY USHERS IN A REASON FOR US TO BE HOPEFUL. BUSINESS OPPORTUNITY(Do You Have The Courge To succeed) TRIBUTE TO CYPRIAN EKWENSI DWELLING IN THE SECRET PLACE OF THE LORD ABOUT EJIKE OGBONNAYA WE NEED THIS KIND OF PERSON IN THIS WORLD BREAKING NEWS! Kebbi Gubernatorial Election Nullified Says FRCN, Kaduna THERE IS A BATTLE CALLED LIFE "Succeeding successfully" Equal opportunity Bald Men Need Natural Hair Care Products Too! How to save your hair and your valuable time removing Fusion, Braids, Weaves, Hair Extensions and Dreadlocks! Laugh your ribs out. Call this comedian STOP AUTHORITY STEALING GROUP PLANS EPIC FILM ON AWO, TWENTY YEARS AFTER HIS DEATH ''PILLAR''OF CORRUPTION! The great cabals NFA: Retain Eaglets, Tella EFCC, the rule of law and the rest of us LESSONS FROM THE GOLDEN EAGLETS SUCCESS IN KOREA 2007 CELESTIAL-TO O WO,KO SI RI PE, RERE NI OLUWA THE LORD IS CALLING US TO HEAR HIS VOICE,ALL THAT TRUST IN HIM FG Policy On Cement : Letter To The President Standardizing Nigerian States' Official Internet Domain Names love NO BODY!SHOULD PUT PROF.SOLUDO ON HOLD NIGERIA GOVERNMENT MUST SHOW NIGERIANS WAY FORWARD SERAH OGECHI ONYEACHOR DIRECTS HER FIRST MOVIE IN HOLLYWOOD AT THE AGE OF 20 NO JUSTICE FOR THE POOR IN NIGERIA THE IGBO MARGINAL MAN Guides for Nigerians in Diaspora when building your house back home. 10 Alternatives to Oil, 10 Keys to National Prosperity 1 New Diaspora Niger Delta Magazine TWO LAWS IN NIGERIA,THE RICH AND THE POOR! Where is the Love/ THE PUSUIT OF SUCESS IN AMERICA Niger Delta Militancy: A poor man's curse Las Vegas Weather The lost old sermon of those days. Knowledge Management PRESIDENT YAR'ADUA NEEDS TO DEAL-WITH INTRIQUES AND POWER-PLAY WE NEED A CHANGE IN OUR SOCIETY TO STOP THE TERIFYING PAINS OF OUR FUTURE MOTHERS IN NIGERIA AND ALL OVER AFRICA (''CIRCUMCISION'') INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY GROWTH IN ETHIOPIA 7 ways to choose an effective career IS ABORTION REALLY MURDER? EFCC ACTIONS China/Africa relation, a new hide and seek. YAR'ADUA NEEDS TO BE CAREFUL OF GENERAL OBASANJO!! AMEN FOUNDATION CATARACT SURGERIES FOR LAGOS STATE Housa man and police officer The godfathers red eyes 30 days in power The go-slow president The cop and the chop Something to ponder Never again I will miss Obasanjo THE ROOT OF REALITY: IN SUPPORT OF MILITANCY Ka sowo po, ka sowo po, Pelu ife mimo King Ogbidi Okojie of Uromi OBASANJO IS STILL RULING NIGERIA NIGERIA WILL BE GREAT AGAIN THE ANATOMY'S SECRET PRINCIPLES OF SUCCESS Nigerias Post 2007 Elections: A Time for Healing Process and National Reconciliation Majors Offered at Rochville University Rochville University Nigeria as Nigerians are the happiest people in the world 19,May 2007.Fear of safety Port Harcourt Nigeria:Bari-arakpalap Esan Youth Rebirth Movement Appeal for the Release of Hostages! Ghana Beckons! Nigeria Rebirth NIGERIAN ELECTORAL PROCESS: DIM LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL Nigeria and same sex bills Nigeria and Choices 2007 Between Babalakins Airport Terminal and Dukes Tinapa Nigerias Drug War: Dora Akunyili A Champion at home and abroad They can do much better the Exodus of Corruption Purposeful Living /What on ewarh are you here for ?!! Discussions on Nigeria 1 Success Series 1 yoruba movies IGBALA DE LONI FUN GBOGBO ENYIN IJO -MIMO The Rivers of Our Dream: Commentary Combating Corruption Corruptly: The Nigerian Experience OMO IJO MIMO (CELESTIAL CHURCH OF CHRIST ) RONUPIWADA What a shameless people?What a shameless country? Africas Political &Economic liberation BEYOND THEIR ANTICS Group swipes at Opponents of Omehia, says he is the right candidat Omehia's Candidature - A Blessing to PDP... CGG DRAMATIC IRONIES home away from home A TERRIBLE BEAUTY THE NIGER_DELTA: A CRADLE OF VIOLENCE MEND vs. POLICE ONSLAUGHT In Defense Of The Outcast One Dishonesty in Census: what's The Upper Limit? IN DEFENCE OF SANGUINARY GODS The relevance of emotional intelligence in business Why the nice men hurts everybody Malleable pornography is a poison to Youth morals Bringing back life into the family Preventing violent behaviour in children DEVELOPING AN APPEALING LOOK Superior should not count people but count on people CELESTIAL MEMBERS ARE U READY TO MEET JESUS ----IF SO--THIS IS WHAT IS REQUIRED FOR U CELESTIAL MEMBERS TO DO-LISTEN TO HIM-GOD ALMIGHTY THE BRUTAL KILLING,TORTURE AND ARREST OF BIAFRAINS WORD OF THE LORD FOR CELESTIAL MEMBER TO LEARN FROM ABOUT THE LORD MARGINALISATIO OF IGBO RACE AND THE STRUGGLE FOR THE SOVEREIGN STATE OF BIAFRA. What If You And Your Friend Love The Same Person? Tell Your Partner Why You Love Them. Love - Can You Change Your Partner? TAIWO AKINKUNMI- AN HERO WITHOUT HONOR Happy New Year!- Let It Go For 2007... Desparity against the nigeria woman Desparity in judgement Desparity against todays nigeria wo osa mwen na ramwen LIFE SAVING INFORMATION FULFILL YOUR PROMISE LAGOS NA WA!!! New Thing in Nkanu land HEALTH CARE FOR THE POPULACE Tears Of My People oba of lagos Lest We Forget: Lest we forget: Challenging the Heart of Africa Project CELESTIAL CHURCH OF CHRIST-- 0R0 OLUWA KO SI YIN Gen. Buhari is the best choice for Nigeria in 2008 ANALYTICAL DISCOURSE ON THE NIGERIAN WOMAN THE EAGLES GATHER FOR IBB NIGERIA - THE PEOPLE AND THE LEADERS IJO MIMO-- THE WAY FORWARD-CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH GOVERNOR DONALD DUKE: SAINT OR SINNER? Glory Emeh and RSG Aviation Fraud WHO CORRUPTED THE PUBLIC SERVICE? FASCISM: THE EKITI EXAMPLE THE FESTAC WE ONCE KNEW Nigeria Triple 'C' Syndrome: Diagnositic Appraisal of our Body Polity The Value of Friend, they worth more than you realize? Role Models: Who and Why are you imitating? Overcoming Shyness All about Bliss and why its not a good Idea Deregulation of morality No Visible Alternative Leadership for 2007 - Nigerians in the Diaspora Declares Politics in High Places: Aberant of the Mainstream Opportunity Cost of $125 Million PTDF Fund: Forgone Conclusion Sanctity of Democratic Choice retrenchment NIGERIA LEFT nigerian students' movement who corrupted the public service Nigerian Independence Day Celebration in The Hague. ABC Health Guide for Nigerians Travelling to the U.K DININE TUNR ARUND Ghana Beckons!! thank you ohafia-agba A day with Adewale Ayuba Governor Idris has donewell but people still lay complains War Against Terror - UK Prime Minister, Tony Blair Speaks on Terrorism in Niger Delta NIGERIANS NEED A KEGITE LEADER AS THE NEXT NIGERIA PRESIDENT KEGITES MEMBERS DECLARED SHAME Nigerian Universities In Shambles INFERNO IN ASO VILLA FRIEND' S FAMILY DECONGESTING THE MIND FEAR OF SUCCESS RUMOURS- THE OFFICE VIRUS PAYING ATTENTION TO THE OTHER SIDE WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH THESE PUBLIC OFFICERS Introducing LBE HelpDesk the serenity of the niger delta; a review commissioner's sack; why hon. Ambaowei must stay endless tears of niger delta : poems post-UME screening: matters arising Bayelsa as an educational brand Quality E-Books and Softwares with Master Resale Rights the nigerian girl making waves in the uk for her continent! Quality E-Books and Softwares with Master Resale Rights The Future of Immigration in the West ACHIEVERS ARE DREAMERS celestial church of christ pillarand the ground of truth--1tim,3-14-15 Adeyinka Makinde, author of Dick Tiger, interviewed on Global Talk Radio A superlative performance- our heroine on the world stage A day with Olusesan Ekisola pioneer GM, Raypower THE KALEIDOSCOPE OF PRINCE TONYE PRINCEWILL Ma sise lo, ma se wa isimi COOPERATING WITH COLONIAL COOPERATION. NA WA FOR YABA MARKET. Difference between Online Education VS. Traditional Education Divergent Perspectives on the Niger Delta Question Black Prime Minister Not In My Lifetime Declares UK First Black Female Parliamentarian, Diane Abbott Private Soldier Lectures Nigerian Commander-in-Chief UK Prime Minister speaks out on terrorism in Africa Addressing Nigeria's Economic Problems and the Islamist Terrorist Threat Obasanjo pls we need your attention. Lets Make Nigeria Great THE BAD EGGS OF THE NIGERIAN FOOTBALL ASSOCIATION RE: Obasanjo: Nigerians ll Decide My Successor we are one in christ-celestial member--LOVE- IS THE WORD AND WORSHIP IS THE WAY;- THE CYBER INVESTIGATOR PART 1 CHIEF AUDU OGBE IN RETROSPECT Interview Transcript of appearance on 'Garvey's Children' Boxing: Rousing the Nigerian Giant THE APATHY OF FREE MEN AND THE CONSPIRACY OF SILENCE THE NIGER-DELTA: A CRADLE OF VIOLENCE Interview Transcript of appearance on 'Just About Books' Remembering Rex Lawson THIRD TERM: THE COLOSSAL FAILURE OF A BAD IDEA; AN INVESTIGATION NEEDS TO BE CONDUCTED TO SEE WHO GOT WHAT AND WHY. THE NEXT GOVERNMENT HAS A FIDUCIARY DUTY TO CONDUCT AND INVESTIGATION INTO EFFORTS TO ABROGATE OUR CONSTITUTION; LET THE CHIP FALL WHEREEVER discuss the development of fishey in nigeral Tetuila thrills America CALL FOR GENDER EQUALITIES!!! GOD BLESS NNAMANI Beyond Third Term: The untold story... EMOTIONS AND LOVE AFFAIRS cry of help THE NEW AFRICAN ORDER - The times, they are a-changing We must Stop the Government The Iran Question and Nigeria DISCUSS IN DETAILS THE HISTORY OF AGRICULTURE IN NIGERIA FROM THE COLONIAL ERA TO THE PRESENT DAY, POINTING OUT CLEARLY ALL AGRICULTURAL PROGRAMMES. The worrisome Lagos-Ibadan traffic Hope for Niger Delta Conference on CURBING YOUTH RESTIVENESS IN THE NIGER DELTA Held on the 29th April 2006 in Rotterdam, The Netherlands. I want your comments The Ambush of Ambition SAY NO TO OBJ THIRD TERM BID internet secrets to money making LET UNITE AND WORSHIP THE TRUE GOD TOGETHER MEMBERS OF (C.C.C.)WORLDWIDE THE NIGERIA POLICE: VICTORS OR VILLAINS THIRD TERM SYNDROME THE IMMINENT DEATH OF A NATION The Messiah illusions of 'scramble democrats' Beyond elections: Niger Delta in perspective Ngige, welcome home from great conquest AFTER THE BATTLE WHAT NEXT Wake up Nigeria The Delta Murder At Dawn Jelili Omotola (1941-2006) In Amsterdam, Nigerian deportee help up our flight for one hour THE WORLD'S NUMBER 1 BLACK BOOK! NIGER DELTA/SLAVE COAST = GARDEN OF EDEN= BLACK PROGRESS? African Union Defined THE DOUBLE VICTIMS OF DEPRAVITY Constitutional Review Obasanjo sliding into a pariah? A Dream of Nigeria: Critical Published Essays 2002 To 2005 Ali Farka Toure (1939-2006) AFRICA - AMERICA DOUBLE STANDARD RELATIONSHIP The Witch of Web-design, the Young Humanitarian and the Scientific-poetic Soul Conference Annoucement!!!!!! Third Term Dilemma A heart for HIV orphans Niger Delta: The Need for Immediate and Urgent International Intervention Ritual Taste In Nigeria. THE NIGER DELTA: A TERRIBLE BEAUTY A TIME TO KILL CRAZY MORALITIES THIRD TERM AGENDA??? THIRD -TERM AGENDA: ANOTHER MANIFESTATION OF THE ELITES' RECURRING CONSPIRACY Do Sumthing! International THE SCANDALOUS ADVOCATES FOR THIRED TERM THE SCANDALOUS ADVOCATES FOR TERM LATELY I HAVE BEEN STARING AT THE MIRROR MOURINHO SHOULD LEARN HOW TO ACCEPT DEFEAT Speech by M. Dominique de Villepin, Minister of Foreign Affairs, to the United Nations Security Council, New York 19.03.2003 NIGERIA AND RELIGIOUS INTOLERANCE. Where is our toil? (a poem) Sorrowful tale (A poem) The beauty and lure of cultism A bad man with good intentions Waltz into darkness Diatribe ans counter diatribe Nigeria: The holocaust agenda The principle of 'chop chop' politics Project Nostradamus The imminent death of a nation The Contenders: Illusions of genuine betrayal Adieu Nigeria Nigeria: Evaluation of the year 2005 Why do we hate him? The Politics of Higher Education UNIONIZING THE NIGERIA POLICE FORCE: THAT THE QUESTION BE NOW PUT So Tafa Balogun is a free man? Words of Wisdom CONSTITUTIONAL AMENDMENT, NOT SOVEREIGN NATIONAL CONFERENCE, IS PATHWAY TO A REFORMED POLITY What has happened to America's Jesus? Insights of Accreditation Six Things Africans Living Abroad Must Note! BEKO IS DEAD: Ace activist succumbs to death after recent battle with ill-health: Soyinka Sad. Row over govt support for Abubakar in U.S. suit by Enahoro, others Your need regarding Online Education Bad leadership and the curse of the Nigerian nation, by Richard Akinjide Trust Your Man ROBBING OUR CHILDREN TO PAY OUR CREDITORS- A CLARION CALL FOR STRONGER U.S. POLICY ON AFRICA Super Eagles Directives for Egypt 2006 NEGLIGENCE AND IGNORANT ATTITUTE Press Statement on President Obasanjo's Third Term Agenda Shared Responsibility for African peace And Security CHARLES TAYLOR: THE GROWING TRENDS OF INTERNATIONAL HUMAN RIGHTS LITIGATION IN THE U.S - A NEW DAWN OF CHALLENGES FOR NIGERIAN AMERICAN LAWYERS Federalism Explained Removing Immunity Clause from the Constitution will undermine Executive Capacity Being a Nigerian REST HOUSE FOR THE AGED IN NIGERIA THE RETURN OF GALADIMA TO THE GLASS HOUSE Putting the Nation on a New Political Path: The Nigerian DREAM Perspectives Types in Logo Design Procrastination: The Thief of Time -(A Personal Tribute to Bimbo Odukoya) Sokoto State: of Despots and Mercenariess Logo Design Buyers Guide WHICH WAY NIGERIA? "Allow me to say nothing" Sokoto State house of Assembly: A mockery of Democracy? From Nigeria to God The cockroch is ready to die Violence Against Women!!!!!! Stop Violence Against Women! Open Letter to Alhaji Umarun Kwabo, AA The Petition that Nailed Governor Alamieyeseigha - what do you think? stay connected Thought transfer Where is Sergeant Rogers? Ken Saro-Wiwa's Closing Statement Alamieseigha's Case, HNDC Stand! DSP Alamieyeseigha U2 Tickets Niger Delta Shall Overcome! Sirleaf: The making of Africas first female President Fasehun, Dokubo, Uwazurike, Adams: Beginning of the end for militia lords? THE RICH ALSO CRY...A TRIBUTE TO BELLVIEW FLIGHT 210 AND MRS STELLA OBASANJO Who Deserves to Die? Is poverty a curse? The travails of Alamieyeseigha Baba-Chelsea - An Interview with Gen. Babangida Rape Too cold for comfort Ribadus comedy of errors Relationships: Embarrassing Moments! (2) NIGERIANS IN DIASPORA - Are you worried that your kids do not know Nigeria? Nigerian foreign policy under the military Role of Press in Nation building. How Long The I-Pod Generation Comes to Town FG Has No Power to Waive Governors Immunity Your adversary, your opportunity Gods calendar and the Holy Spirit New Orleans, the voodoo city, goes down Injustice In Niger Delta HIV/AIDS: Why ICASA and NACA must succeed Is Atiku truly disloyal? Dokubo worth trillions to Nigeria's unity In the name of the father, the mother, and the son! NIGERIA LEADERS MUST FIGHT CORRUPTION TO AVOID THE PEOPLES FURY Delta politics and the age factor NEPA: A nation in perpetual darkness (2) Debt relief... nothing to celebrate? Debt relief or treasonable scam? NEPA : A nation in perpetual darkness What Fayose and his men saw in Jigawa (1) CreditRegistry Corporation: Nigeria Credit Service Pioneer Police, soldier united in a cause challenges facing the new saudi monarch Art of reporting terror Dictators in civil clothing When will the North reason properly? Resource Control Set To Tear Nigeria Apart. EMMERGING FINANCIAL SCENERIO - MERGER AND ACQUISITION - A PERSPECTIVE Realities in marriage Women who live and die for our world: Wangari Maathai and Kay Ruth Williams This is no time for roforofo Trickles of victory for the state PDP battle shifts to Akwa Ibom My Rwandan woman and her baby A TRIBUTE TO THE UNITED STATES Good times, bad times The riddle of succession Random thoughts on the confab Sideview: Blood, tyranny and corruption Greg Mbadiwe and the power merchants Abusive relationship: What you can do Marginalization, what marginalization? HUMAN RIGHTS ABUSES BY THE UNDEMOCRATIC OBASANJO REGIME ON THE NIGER DELTA PEOPLE. Lead a responsible life Nigeria's Government Betrayal of the People of Niger Delta Live 8 Concert: Where are my African Brethrens? Sad state of Affairs Obasanjo, Young, and Masters: What kind of cabal? What life are we living?the thief among us A South-South President: The quest for equity, justice and fair play Professor Ibrahim Gambari and June 12: The "un-disgraced" collaborator Tragic end of the peoples pilot: Captain Jerry Agbeyegbe June 12: Never, never again Gani versus the newest librarians Celebrating Obasanjocracy A parable for Nigeria This Animal Called Nigerian A Review Of 318 Odontogenic Tumors In Kaduna, Nigeria The Nigerian child: A future so bleak Ritual Killing and Pseudoscience in Nigeria Go south, con man | Why Nigerian fraudsters now like working in South Africa Stiff penalties for footballers Ken Nnamani and the new way No one loves Nigeria Book of life Ehindero begged me to cool down Nigeria Time to Cut a Debt Deal? Decoding the US alarm on Nigeria A decade & two funerals A nation of riggers Let's rotate the Presidency The bell tolls for Nigeria COUNSELLING STUDENTS OF THE FACULTY OF EDUCATION AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MAIDUGURI AGAINST EXAMINATION MALPRACTICE NUCVIHEP'S MODULE 2 PROJECT NUCVIHEP'S MODULE 3 PROJECT ASSESSMENT OF THE STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES OF THE CURRENT M.ED. ADULT EDUCATION (COMMUNITY DEVELOPMENT AND EXTENSION SERVICES) CURRICULUM OF UNIVERSITY OF MAIDUGURI. CULTURAL PROBLEMS IN AFRICA The Plague AFRICAN VALUES AND FALSE PERCEPTIONS September 11; What lesson have we learned? AFRICAN LEADERS; WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE…? NIGERIA; WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE...? CORRUPTION AND NIGERIA GOVERNMENT IS THIS DEMOCRACY...? I REALLY DONT KNOW WAR AGAINST IRAQ; WHAT FUTURE FOR THE YOUTH? WHEN UNITED NATIONS TURNED DIVIDED NATIONS... IN MY COUNTRY... MY DREAMS FOR NIGERIA NIGERIA AND HER SYSTEMS, WHERE HAVE WE GONE WRONG? INTERNATIONAL COURT FRUSTRATES NIGERIAN MILITARY MULLAHS In POLITICS Why and How Women are Exploited by Men Worldwide Congratulations for what? Trouble in the Nigerian House of Othman Dan Bello One flag one country one continent Obasanjo, at times like this

Written by: USA


This story is a real life story of a girl at the time and now a grown woman who was and is still disowned by her dad. So if you are a girl or a lady and you are separated from your dad, you are not alone.

Her name was Ifeoma, not real name. Back in the days, she was a brilliant student. Her parents are highly educated and I could say, among the elites of one of the states East of the Niger. She was brought up in a very conservative family. Her mom was a Matron in one of the reputable hospitals. Her dad was a lawyer. He went to school in the famous London School of Economics. He had a degree in economics and law. He came back to Nigeria, got called to the bar and became a reputable lawyer in the east. He rose to become a High Court Judge. Both parents met in England and got married immediately they came back to Nigeria after the civil war.

Ifeoma is the first of their six children. She was the daddys little girl when she was born. She was very light-skinned, beautiful, smart, and intelligent and they use to call her Adaeze or Princess. She stood out as a pretty girl but very reserved and even shy. Before they had other children, Ifeoma was the love of their life. They would not end any discussion with a friend or relative without a good mention of her. She grew up as the favorite and could never do any wrong in the sight of her dad. Her dad use to go to social occasions with the little Ify.

When they got other kids, which included 4 other female kids and a son, the attachment continued and other kids were jealous of Ifeoma because of the love being showered on her by their dad. The closeness with the dad continued during her primary and post-primary schools. She went to a Special  Science  School. In spite of her fathers tight schedule, he always paid her visits on visiting days as she was in the boarding school. They lived in GRA and are well catered for. Ifeoma and her siblings kept no friends. Ifeoma was not even allowed to have even female friends.

The closeness between her and her dad started to erode as she became a full blown teenager, with the spurt of adolescent. Her dad was nursing the secret plans that she would take after her and become a lawyer. To his chagrin, she opted to be a science student instead, since she did not like the life or career as a lawyer. She wanted to be a medical doctor. That was the first disappointment, her first mortal sin, but he got over it and life went on.

When she graduated from school, she made all her papers and proceeded to take the Joint Matriculation Examination popularly known as JAMB. She didnt do too well in JAMB, so she applied to do the pre-degree course otherwise known as pre-science at the Abakaliki Campus of former Anambra State University of Technology (ASUTECH). After the program, she was not able to make the score for medicine and was given Micro-Biology. She would have been admitted to do medicine had her father taken it upon himself to do the extra incentive for the school admissions as every most rich parents do. However, since her dad was a no-nonsense lawyer and has been elevated to the rank of a High Court Judge, it was more difficult to do egunje since he was seen as an incorruptible judge. So she ended up reading Micro-Biology. Things remained normal with her and her dad in her freshman and sophomore years. At that time, there had been several disagreements with her dad stemming from her asserting herself as an adult.

Things got worse when she was in her third year. She fell in love with a guy that came home for vacation from Europe. The guy in question wanted to marry her. It was like a fairy-tale to her since she never actually had a serious male relationship. She was kind of infatuated with him. All her life and her ambitions changed because of this new feeling inside her.

She came home one weekend and went straight to her dad and told him about the guys proposal. The dad was dumb-founded.

Which guy? You are still in school and you wanted to get married? What are you talking about? What happened to your medical ambition? he said. Ifeoma was planning to go back and read medicine after her first degree.

But dad, I am a grown woman. I know what I am doing. Chinedu loves me. I have seen his parents and they are very nice people. I can still go to school over there if I want to she said.

Her dad would hear none of that and called her mom to tell her what he just heard. A few days later, she came home to their house with Chinedu. Chinedu was a good-looking guy in his late twenties at the time, and appeared to have all it took to take care of a lady and in fact a family. He had a Mercedes car, a house at Onitsha given to him by his father. However, he looked every inch like a yankee even though he was based in Belgium. He had a jerry curled hair dripping with oil, and spoke English laced with American slang. He wore a tight fitting pair of jean and a shirt, looking like a musician!

When the love birds entered their house, her mom was very accommodating to him. If she had any misgivings about Chinedu, Ifys mom didnt reveal from her conduct or even her body language. But when the dad saw Chinedu, he had a fit. The learned judge was livid with anger. He was as scornful to Chinedu as he was highly disrespectful. He walked him out of his house raining abuses on him and even on his daughter. He basically kicked the guy out of his house. If you kick him out of your house, you are also kicking me out, Ify said.

To his fathers surprise, Ifeoma did what no one ever expected. She eloped with Chinedu and that was the last anybody saw of her for almost a year! She abandoned her school which was an abomination as far as her dad was concerned. No one knew where she went to and she maintained no contact with anyone; not even her siblings and even close friends knew her whereabouts.

Her fathers anger turned to sadness, disappointment and even shame. After a whole month and no one knew where she was, her father reported a missing person to the police but to no avail. The police put up a missing person poster but no one came forward. No one even knew Chinedus town or even what part of the world he resided or whether or not they both took off to Europe.

Finally, after 10 months of search without any success, her dad went to a reliable dibia- native doctor. After some incantations with a white fowl and kola nuts, the dibia told him to go home and that after 30 days, his daughter would return. True to the herbalists words, Ifeoma came back to their house looking haggard and unkempt. When she arrived at their house, she knelt down and asked her dad for forgiveness for all the shame she brought to him and to her family. Rumors were flying around that she was even pregnant when she came back but was aborted by the parents. But it was a lie. It took months for him to start talking to her again. To us distant relatives, no one knew where she went and because the Judge maintained a very secretive life style, no one bordered to ask since you would be wasting your time.

Ifeoma lost one whole academic year. She had to start from where she left off. She became more focused and wiser. She never kept late nights, no parties, and no extra-curriculum activities. She finished her third year and proceeded to her final year. By that time, she had decided that she was not cut out for medical career after all. She finally graduated from the university and went to her NYSC. Whether or not she maintained relationship with Chinedu, no one knew.

After her service however, Chinedu came calling again. However, this time Chinedu became more serious minded. No more jerry curls hairs, no more tight jeans or American accents. He became more mature and looked more focused. He wanted to marry her now for real. No more games and no more gimmicks. Chinedu moved from Europe to the United States the past three years.

But Ifeomas dad would have none of that. The day he came to do the iku aka-traditional introduction before marriage, Ifeomas dad virtually slammed the door on his face and his friends and few realtives. He threw them out of his house. Their dog, Jimmy, was sent to chase them away.

He sent people to warn him to stop coming to his house or risk going to jail. After what he did, he still had the temerity to come to my house. If he comes to my house again, I will arrest him

Ifeoma did everything to convince her dad to accept Chinedu as his son-in-law but to no avail. Her mom cannot plead her case because the Judge was a very stubborn man and never listened to anybody. His wife is always in awe of him. If the wife cannot get through to him, who on earth could? Sources close to them said that the judge was not just angry because of what Chinedu did, taking his daughter away. The main grouse he had was that Chinedu came from a business and illiterate background. Even though his father was relatively rich and a Chief, his father was not educated. As a High Court Judge and a highly respected member of the bench, he would rather be an in-law to a reputable Judge or lawyer or even a Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN). Worse still, the prospective son-in-law was neither a lawyer nor came from a family of reputable lawyers. He was not even that educated as far as he is concerned. Chinedu read Business Administration in Belgium. It was even irritating to him to even see the guy in his house looking for his daughters hand in marriage.

Chinedu and Ifeoma sent lots of emissaries to her dad to see if he would change his mind but all fell on deaf ears. Determined to marry Chinedu, she went to her uncles whom she did not normally had a normal relationship with because of her scornful dad; and asked them to plead with her dad to soften his stance about her sweetheart but no luck. They used every method of diplomacy to make him bulge but he remained adamant.

After many months of cajoling, the uncles became very angry. They decided to take the bull by the horn. They confronted him the way no one had ever dared him before. Are you a human being or a god? You cannot marry your daughter. Since you cannot marry her yourself, tell us why you keep blocking her marriage. If you use her to do charms, or if your secret cult forbids giving your daughter away in marriage, tell us. It was a very spirited argument between the judge and his brothers. They left out of annoyance but not before warning him that after thirty days, if he kept stone-walling, they would give his daughter away by themselves in his absence; afterall, Ifeoma belonged to them also.

He remained adamant and dared his brothers to do their worse. Seeing that there was nothing that would change his mind, they decided to take the bride price from Chinedu and his people. They sent words to him to come on a certain date at the familys obi-altar. They also informed her dad about their intentions. The eldest of the family ordered him to come home on the appointed date, failing which the whole family would take the bride price from Chinedu and his people and the gods of their fathers would sanction it with or without him.

On the appointed date, Ifeomas dad came home and participated in the ceremony and decided to perform the tradition. They gave Ifeoma a cup of palm wine and told her to go and give to her suitor. She did as she was told and bingo she is married! .

But that was where her trouble got much worse. Her father disowned her. He was still angry and refused to have the in-laws do the wine carrying ceremony.

 She went to my illiterate brothers and they forced me to give her away in marriage

He swore not to have anything to do with her again, ever. She used her uncles house as hers. She had her first child in Nigeria as she stayed with her parents-in-law. Her dad neither cared nor acknowledged the first grand child. Even her mom would hide whenever she went to see her daughter. She stayed about a year or so before joining her husband in the United States.


Ifeoma's dad turned his attention to his second daughter, Uju. Uju did all his bidding. She was at his beck and call. She read law and her father took her to every social gatherings for the learned gentlemen. She married 'right' as her husband was a lawyer and came from a reputable family. Uju now took the 'ada'-1st daughter from her sister, Ifeoma.


Ifeoma's only brother, Uche, was a whimp. He was docile as their mother. He never asked questions and was also at her father's beck and call. He also read law and was afraid that if he raised an eyebrow against dad and got disowned, he would no longer inherit his father's property including his prize law office. So their dad was an 'oracle' as far as everyone was concerned.

Ify has been living in the US for over seven years. Even though her mom has retired from public service as a Matron in one of the hospitals in the east, she still would not go to the United States to do omugwo for her daughter whenever Ifeoma had a child. It was because Ifeomas dad forbade her. It has been very painful for her that her dad did not want to have anything to do with her or her kids, let alone her greasy hair husband. Anytime she calls her dads phone number, he would pick up and hang up on her. If he knew it was her calling, he would not pick up. She did everything within her powers to have her father forgive and forget, but only if you don't know what manner of man the dad was.....very uncompromising and a bully.

The worse part that happened recently that made people to say tufia was that during his retirement ceremony as a judge, the program of event had the Judges biography. In the biography, instead of saying that he has six children, he stated that he has five. It seems like a typographical error, but when you look at the names of his children listed, you would find out that Ifeomas name was conspicuously missing.

Ifeoma now has a nursing degree in one of the reputable Universities in the USA, a loving husband, four kids, and a dog. She wished that her dad remained her best friend as he used to when she was young, but all these changed because of her love for her sweetheart who is her husband. She is suffering inside despite her achievements since she came to the states. The last time I spoke to her after her dads action during his retirement, she wept all through. Could you believe it Chukwudi? My own dad disowned me

In her last call to her dad, she hid her phone number and disguised her voice. When her dad found out it was her and was about to hang up, she cried, Daddy, I am your daughter.

She wept uncontrollably when he hung up on her, again.

*Chukwudi Nwokoye writes in from Maryland, USA.

nwokoyeac@hotmail.com


Read Full Story Here.... :



Add Comment

* Required information
1000
Captcha Image

Comments (0)

No comments yet. Be the first!